Chickpea & Apple

Unkiss & Sara

2012-01-25T13:39:00.000-08:00

We had a great visit with Uncle Chris and Auntie Sara last weekend. The girls got them up bright and early every morning just to give them a taste of what parenthood is like. Despite the rainy weekend we had some fun filled busy morning adventures at the Ferry Building and Chinatown, the Oakland Zoo and Cafe Trieste followed by lots of napping. We have some serious anticipation around here for our new cousin. Can't wait for our next visit with one more kiddo in tow!

Hazel's 18 Months

2012-01-05T15:27:00.000-08:00

It's Miss Hazy's half birthday today. She's a whopping 18-months-old. Ava wanted cupcakes today but we'll celebrate with some zucchini bread instead. It's hard to believe that she has only been a part of our family for such a short time because it feels like she has always been with us. To me there is something so familiar about Hazel. I just look at her and I already feel like I know her. With Ava, everything is so new and unexpected she is constantly keeping me on my toes. They seem to be two sides to a coin that I love dearly.

Hazel is a busy girl these days. She loves her baby dolls immensely and strolls them around the house or outside in the wagon. She adores going for walks outside but unlike her big sister, she is not a fan of the stroller. At this point we need to let her walk just about everywhere which means there is lots of chasing and standoffs as to which direction we'll take. Hazel loves all forms of bike riding, as does her sister - I'll let you figure out where that came from. She will actually cry in desperation for the bike. She tries to water ski using the cat's tail which he surprisingly doesn't seem to mind much.

Hazel has become a big talker with a huge explosion of words in the last few weeks. She will give a good effort in saying almost any word you ask her to. Our new favorite is "crocodile" which is pronounced in more of a sentence fashion. A few other favorites: ka-ka = coffee, nake-nake = naked (as in, yea it's bath time), si-soo = sister (funny enough, she won't say Ava yet?), pa-ta = pasta. You get the idea. And we're just starting to get some two word combos, like "Daddy sleep". I have to say this age is completely adorable and it doesn't hurt that Hazel is such a good natured kid. Well, she bites and pulls hair, but I can overlook that.

Ah, love you kid.

Farm Christmas

2011-12-19T14:51:00.000-08:00

Here are the girls visiting Santa at Ardenwood Farms earlier this month. It's nice to visit a more wholesome Christmas celebration than the mall, right?! As you see Hazel was a little scared of Santa and Ava was doing her big sister job well. Hazel has her "Ho-ho-ho!" down perfectly now. With the tree and decorations up I know both girls are filled with anticipation and excitement. The advent calendar is almost finished. We're looking forward to having some fun around the house to celebrate together.

We watched the farm animals. Hazel's word for "animal" is "Elmo". I have NO idea how that happened, really.

We made sheep ornaments from the farm's own wool.

The girls ran around and got tuckered out.

Ava couldn't part with her candy cane.

An adorable picture of the girls smiling together for our Christmas card was elusive. I wonder why?

Fall Leaves

2011-11-30T13:03:00.001-08:00

Yup, we keep the girls pretty busy with chores. Really they were busy for about a half an hour pushing leaves around the front yard. They were both quite determined and focuses on the project regardless of the fact that Daddy kept shaking the tree to make it rain more leaves.

They aren't too happy that our yard that kept them busy all summer is now soggy and wet. But, now it's host to all other sorts of projects and fun.

Thankful

2011-11-30T12:50:00.001-08:00

We were lucky enough to have Nanny Jane visit our house for Thanksgiving this year. The girls had a great time playing with her and Ava got to help out with lots of cooking projects. I think we cooked and baked more in one week that I have all month. Food always tastes better when Mom makes it.

And why my dear Hazel would you only eat raisins when you had a whole bounty of food? Yes, this babe is always thankful for raisins. She wouldn't even taste the pie, crazy girl.

Mexico pictures coming soon!!

Get us out of here!

2011-11-13T20:44:00.001-08:00

We're shipping out to Mexico for some much needed R&R. We'll be meeting up with cousin Piper, Christine and Bill and to my happy surprise, more family: Joe, Stephanie, Wade, Kelly, Cole, Blake and Missy. What a gang we'll be! Hello beach - goodbye rain.

Halloween Fun

2011-11-03T10:35:00.000-07:00

Ava and Samaliya after their preschool school Halloween celebration. They host a great non-sugar event for the kids with lots of decorations and a costume parade. Seriously they are adorable in their pink-fairy-fluff dresses. I can't tell you how excited Ava is about her new silver shoes too.

Our neighbors gave Ava this adorable kitty costume hand-me-down. Then a few weeks back we spotted the exact same one in Hazel's size at a kids consignment store. Ava insisted we get it so they could match. Easy, I'm sold. While I'd love to make beautiful handmade costumes for my girls I'm happy with good enough at this busy stage of our lives. Plus they are pretty dang cute, right!

And off they go! Our neighborhood is excellent for mellow trick-or-treating. We gather all the kids from about 3 blocks (there were about 15 of them), many parents come in costume (with beer in hand) and we roam around just a few blocks and then call it a day.

After the post neighborhood plundering Ava sat down to sort all of her candy which Erik and I can vividly remember doing as kids too. I think at this age the packaging is the most impressive thing. She was allowed to keep anything that wasn't candy (I wish more people gave out non-sweets) and 4 pieces of candy because she is 4-years-old. Of course she asked "Can I keep one more because I love you?" Jeez.... The "Switch Witch" came while she was sleeping and carried all the candy off to Mommy's office and left her a new Madeline board game instead. Ava couldn't have been more pleased.

I love hearing how other people deal with this ridiculous sugar fest, comment please and let me know what you do!

Punkin' Patch

2011-11-03T10:13:00.000-07:00

We took the kids to the pumpkin patch to run off a little energy. Hazel would have been happy for hours kicking, rolling and lifting pumpkins. For Ava it was an excuse to get to wear one of her many costumes and bounce around.

So guess who likes goats? At first she was calling them dogs but soon started calling them "go's". I love it when my kids aren't afraid of new things. Hazy quickly picked up some food and started feeding them, completely delighted at the nibbling of her fingers.

Climber

2011-10-29T22:20:00.000-07:00


Ava is our little climbing princess these days. I'm amazed at how quickly she will tackle this rope and scurry right up to the top. Makes me nervous too but what are you going to do. She likes to sit up there for awhile and call out to the neighbors over the fence. We remind her to save enough strength in her arms for the climb down but she just gets stronger and stronger every time. Ava is in what I'll call a "princess lite" phase. She says she likes pink, purple, crowns, fairies and sparkles but funny enough she doesn't like skirts and prefers her regular old comfy non-pink yoga clothes and sneakers. She's just as much a tom-boy and I appreciate how she can embrace both sides. Prance around and get dirty little one.

Pretty high I know!

Bed Time Dance

2011-10-27T22:29:00.001-07:00

Just some girls dancing to music and getting some giggles out before bed. If you'll notice Hazel has just figured out how to spin round from watching the big girls and she gets a little too dizzy.

Tuckered Out

2011-10-08T21:51:00.000-07:00

The other day Ava and I came home from running errands to find this, one sacked out baby. She really didn't approve of Daddy waking her up when he thought she had had enough.

And here is one of the many reasons why this little one is so exhausted. She can simply not be contained anymore, the girl must walk. And while years ago I may have given up on an excursion to Target with a toddler who was hell-bent on thrashing her way out of the cart, now I let her walk, I chase her down and I play tag. Don't get me wrong, Hazel is not the greatest shopping partner at the moment so she wont be invited on so many trips, but we go with the flow a little better this time around.

Outdoor Movie Night

2011-10-01T11:48:00.000-07:00

Last night we had 30 of our favorite friends over both big and small for an outdoor movie night in our backyard. It was sooooo much fun and the kids did so well. We're already looking forward to making it a tradition every Indian Summer. We introduced the kids to vintage Alice in Wonderland and most of the parents hadn't seen the film in ages. Everyone snuggled up on the grass in PJs, sleeping bags and blankets with oodles of popcorn. I love unexpected evenings like this where you show the kids a new experience and they are just enchanted - good times.

On a side note, our friends brought this insanely good dip that we're going to make again. Who would have thought?

Walkie Talkie

2011-09-19T21:05:00.000-07:00

We have a real walker amongst us now. Hazel has been slow and steady on the walking front, taking her time and pacing herself. Around her birthday she was standing then taking a week to learn one step, the next week two steps and so on... until now when she actually prefers to walk over her very efficient and speedy crawling. When Ava learned to walk we just watched her one evening walk across the room and that was that, she was a walker. Siblings they may be, but such different little girls!

Hazel is talking a little more each day too. Here's what she has to say for herself:

Cat (More of a really dramatic "taaat". This was her first word!)
Pablo (He's a pretty important guy around here. He was her second word. She just calls Ruby "Pablo" too.)
Mama
Daddy
Hot
Woof-woof
Bock-bock (Every time she sees my collection of Barbara's chickens or when we go feed the hens next door.)
Agua
Uh-oh
Baby
Ball

We've been teaching her some sign language too since Ava is our teacher. Hazel can sign apple, water, milk, and more. And the one sign that makes my heart melt is when she signs Ava's name sign over and over - as in "Where did my sister go! I want to see her!" Ava insists she is making other signs when she is waving her hands around too. She'd know better than me.

So we're saying farewell to the baby days around here and welcoming toddlerhood. Where did the time go? She used to be so tiny - wait she IS so tiny. You are just too adorable little dumpling!

Bigger Girl

2011-09-06T21:10:00.000-07:00

It has been a big summer for Ava. Not only has she learned how to ride a two-wheeled bike but she has also learned how to swim. That's right, she's a full fledged dog-paddler who can float. I'll tell you it's a relief to know she can swim on her own to the edge of the pool. She can climb our rope swing all the way up to the sky too! The thing about Ava is that she likes a physical challenge and she always has since she was a baby. She may have cried after falling off her bike and getting scrapped up and protested getting into a cold pool on a foggy evening but she she is completely undeterred from learning something physical. I've really enjoyed seeing her embrace a challenge, take it head on and say YES! I want to learn and I'm strong enough to do it.

She has also learned more about friendship and I know this will be a constant journey for her. Sadly, Ava has had a bunch of friends move away this summer and others will soon too as their parents move out of the Bay Area for other opportunities. Plus other little friends making the jump to kindergarden has made her feel a little left behind. We've fielded a lot of questions about "why" and "when will I see them again?" Chin-up little girl, you will always have friends and be loved. As we all learn, friendships have an evolution all of their own.

Waterfront

2011-09-05T22:34:00.000-07:00

Down by the water this morning for breakfast. Hazel watching the birds, the boats and the water. Enjoying a bumpy ride on the dock.


Ava enjoying a lollypop at 9:30 in the morning. I curse every establishment that offers your child candy! Oh well.

Still Here

2011-08-30T10:10:00.000-07:00

Don't worry folks, we're still here! August has been an unbelievably busy month for us. We've had a great time camping, enjoyed lots of house guests, slogged though a few sicknesses, and survived a month of working without Hazel's nanny (who happily vacationed in her native Peru for the first time in 10 years). We'll have lots of photos to share soon. We're looking forward to getting back into the routine that September and a new school year offers. Phew!

How High Can You Throw Us Daddy?

2011-07-13T08:47:00.000-07:00

Needless to say, a very popular game around here and a very good workout for Erik.

Back down on solid ground.

Happy Spaghetti Face

2011-07-09T21:02:00.000-07:00

Yes, pasta, one of the kids favorites around here. What you can't see here is how much is on the floor. We need a dog. I'll admit, occasionally pasta is eaten for breakfast when there is a little left over from packing lunches. Did I mention how much I loath packing lunches? How many more years until they can do it themselves?

Hazel is a good eater but a grazer like her sister. A few bites and then she is on to the next thing, too busy to fill her belly, growing too quickly to stay satisfied for long. I'm a mama always armed with containers of good snacks to ward off hungry tummies. Their job is to play, mine to feed.

Biker Chick

2011-07-06T15:39:00.000-07:00

Happy Birthday June Bug!

2011-07-05T21:20:00.000-07:00

Our sweet Hazel is one year old. Who could believe that this year would fly by so fast. We are completely smitten with this little girl who just grows all the more adorable with every day. Hazel is a chatter box who loves to jabber away. She is the most wiggly, busy baby you could possibly imagine. She is an independent kid but very social at the same time. And we are always asked, "Is she usually this mellow? And when the moment is right she is oh so cuddly. Yeah, we scored with this one and there is no way we could imagine life without her in our family.

We had a fairly quiet day today going about our normal routine. Ava and Eddie were more than happy to instruct Hazel in the best technique to eat the cupcakes our neighbor Carole dropped by.

Yeah, she did a pretty efficient job smashing it to bits. I must say, I just love watching kids intricately devour cupcakes.

We ended the night with a thorough bath but before then the big kids helped her open gifts, again giving her pointers that only come with experience. She was so entertained ripping all the paper to shreds.

Thank you for finding us Hazel and for letting us celebrate you. We love you dearly.

Hazel's 4th of July Bash

2011-07-04T21:19:00.000-07:00

We had a few friends over for a 4th of July BBQ to celebrate Hazel. I've honestly never liked the 4th since it's seems so rowdy and we're not fans of fireworks. But the holiday has a whole new meaning for me since I went into labor on the evening of 4th just one year ago. I will never forget laboring with Erik outside with all the noise and the lights. We'd walk down the street, stop for a contraction and point at the bright lights we could see over fences and rooftops. It was a wonderful distraction that night and perfect celebration to welcome this amazing little girl.

Hazel is not walking yet but we're in no hurry. She is a super speedy crawler and will occasionally knock her self over when she is going too fast. Here she is practicing her standing with a cheering crowd.

She was pretty mesmerized by everyone singing happy birthday to her.

Mommy botched not one cake but two and managed to save it with whipped cream that was nearly turned into butter. Don't worry, the cursing was not done in earshot of children and everything tasted excellent. Now I hear you saying "Just buy the cake next time!" but I just love having something homemade for them.

Yummm, creamy goodness.

Some serious giggling with Nora at the bubble machine.

She cracks me up when she hangs with the big kids. They are so patient and affectionate with her - and then off like a flash to something else. Ava gets pretty protective and possessive over her sister when there are lots of kids around.

Until next year's BBQ... perhaps a tradition in the making. But I have a feeling she may hate the red, white and blue festivities at some point. We shall see.

That's How We Roll

2011-06-20T10:10:00.000-07:00

Daddy Day

2011-06-20T09:44:00.000-07:00

Happy Father's Day Erik! We headed out on our first family bike ride for a little grub and fresh air. We're lucky parents for sure with these two silly and amazing girls. Not well rested, but happy none the less. It's been quite a year. I'm so happy to see these three enjoying their time together, tackling Daddy and making us all laugh.

Hazel didn't seem to mind the helmet bobbling on her tiny little head.

We ended a beautiful summer day at a BBQ with friends. Thank goodness summer is finally here.

NY Wedding

2011-06-13T21:13:00.001-07:00

It has been a busy 6 weeks with lots of traveling and adventure for our family. Haven't had time to keep up with the posts. Hazel and I traveled out to cousin Abe's wedding in NY. Ryan did a lovely job planning a spectacular event at a beautiful historic location along the Hudson River. I only wish we had had a little extra time to explore the area a little more and visit some of my old haunts from Bard College. But it was great to see Abe and Ryan and what a happy life they have created in their sweet little home of Beacon.

Hazel was an amazing little traveling companion which was such a relief. She was quite happy meeting so many new people, exploring new places and getting passed around. She actually sat on the lap of the woman next to us for a good portion of the flight home, phew!

This is actually me keeping her as quiet as a church mouse during the ceremony.

Great Grandma Martha with the bride and groom.

Aunt Sarah and Uncle Denny. So what should the girls call Sarah? "Great-Aunt Sarah" just doesn't work. We need suggestions!!!

Come on Sarah, wave your ribbons!

Abe and Hazel getting acquainted.

The reception was in a beautiful old barn all lit up with twinkle lights.

Grandma Martha getting her groove on with Abe - watch out! Quite impressive Grandma Martha.

Hazel got a turn to dance around with Denny too.

And then there's cousin Abby and cousin Brad who were so great to catch up with. Who knows when we'll get to see them next with their busy college schedules. None the less they were very sweet with Hazel and it was great to see them. Until next time guys!

Camping Big Basin

2011-06-13T19:28:00.000-07:00

A few weeks back we took our first big family adventure camping trip to Big Basin. Despite the rain the girls had a great time scouting for banana slugs, roasting marshmellows, making up new games...

.... and in Hazel's case, eating dirt.

There was lots of exploring and trudging through the forest with the daddies.

Ava's best buddies Samalyia, ah so sweet. I know we'll look back on this picture with stories about the two of them.

Then there is the littler version of the two sisters. Mwansa and Hazel eager to chow down on some camp grub.

There's more camping plans in our future this summer. Just no rain please!!

San Diego Spring

2011-06-13T18:12:00.000-07:00

Back in May we headed down to San Diego for a week to visit Grandma And Grandpa and stay at a condo our friend Carole had generously given us. The drive is rough but seems surprisingly better each time we do it and the girls did an excellent job with all the car time. It was great soaking up some hot weather and catching up with family and friends.

We spent a day out at the beach in La Jolla with the Gutkowski crew. Ava can never have enough Jasper and Annalise time (or enough beach time for that matter). We're looking forward to seeing them all up here in August too.

Hazel got her first proper introduction to Grandma and Grandpa's backyard swing. Perhaps we should rename it "The Tummy Tumbler". Needless to say she was quite pleased.

Yea, good times hanging out in the yard all around.

Ava happily made mud pies next to Grandpa's new pond while she waited her turn on the swing.

Yup, that's my girl again. So pleased she's not afraid to get dirty. I can just hear her saying "It's no big deal. We'll just put it in the laundry."

We celebrated all the spring birthday's in the family at once. Grandma, Daddy, Paris, Elijah and Ava all fall with 6 weeks of one another. Yes, there was a lot of candle blowing.

We headed out for a day at Sea World to check out all the animals and a few shows. Ava was quite impressed by the dolphin performance.

Daddy actually got to touch a dolphin.

And here's our own dolphin who was practically inseparable from the pool. We came directly home and signed up for swim lessons for our fearless girl.

And this one just thought it was the craziest bath time ever.

Upright

2011-06-02T10:59:00.000-07:00

She's just too little to be standing! Hazel is pulling up on everything in a flash but she's just a little peanut. She's around 17 pounds at nearly 11m. It's hard to imagine that she'll be walking soon on those tiny but oh so chubby legs.

4th Birthday Bash

2011-05-24T09:42:00.000-07:00

This weekend we celebrated Miss Ava Jane's 4th Birthday on a most perfect Spring day. We had a big day with a gaggle of her friends both big and little out to party.

We surprised Ava with a bouncy house in the yard. The man came to set it up and she was just silent with awe and anticipation. When it came down she wanted to know why we couldn't buy one to keep up in the backyard all the time.

It's very important for grown-ups to have fun at parties too, even if it is just laughing at kids.

Hazel had a great time just soaking in all the big kids being crazy. She got to hang out with our wonderful neighbor Carole and many other grown-up while Mommy & Daddy attended to guests and bonked heads.

Man is this one mellow. Can't wait to see her go crazy with excitement at her own party a few years from now.

I just love watching a herd of kids swarm around cupcakes. They can sense sugar a mile away. Ava was particular about just one thing for her party and that was chocolate cupcakes with chocolate frosting. Ah, she is her mother's daughter don't you think? And the look on her face, she just knows this is the big moment.

I also love watching how each kid carefully nibbles his/her own cupcake differently.

Check it out, it's cousin Piper in the corner, isn't she getting big. We're so glad she and Christine happened to be in town for Ava's party.

Bounced exhausted by a happy day. Celebrated lovingly by family and friends. Hugs to you our big 4 year old girl.

And you to Hazy.

Just becasue....

2011-05-19T10:17:00.000-07:00

...a birthday girl deserves to be sprung from school early to have a chocolate ice cone with mama.

Birthday Girl

2011-05-17T14:45:00.000-07:00

How did you turn 4 already my baby girl? We love you dearly little one. You make our day brighter and constantly challenge and amaze us. Thank you for letting us be your parents. You're a good teacher Ava Jane.

Mama Day

2011-05-11T11:44:00.000-07:00

Gosh I just love these two more and more each day. Motherhood is the most challenging and most rewarding adventure I'll ever have without a doubt. And I'm so grateful these two kiddos are taking the ride with me. I can't wait to see what life holds for us each year. So this year we headed out to Sunol for a little picnic with our friends for Mother's Day. The mommies kicked back a bottle of champagne while the daddies entertained the rowdy big girls.

Our girls like mud.

Our girls like climbing trees.

Did I mention they like being silly too?

Look at us with our little gaggle of 4 girls. It's so sweet that they have all know each other their entire lives and see one another all the time. I've loved seeing how these 2 big girl friends have grown up together and am equally excited to see how the two little ones become friends. For now they are just intent staring at one another and poking each other but they are coming along nicely.

Bunny Day

2011-04-30T11:40:00.000-07:00

Yes the Easter Bunny did make his way to our house this year. Mama had food poisoning so it was a quiet day around the house. But we had a lovely visit with Auntie Lea, Bob and Olivia. Hazel had a ball with the egg hunt and Ava was beside herself with delight finding just a few jelly beans hidden inside.

Miss Distructo

2011-04-27T09:40:00.000-07:00

Look what Hazel figured out, as countless children have before her.... She was quite please to find that she could drag her body over to the bookshelf in what we are now calling her "zombie crawl" and pull all the books down. Then she proceeded to flap them, throw them and chew them, what fun!!

Nanny Jane & Papa Dave Outting

2011-04-20T09:33:00.000-07:00

Nanny Jane and Papa Dave were here for a quick visit on their way home from Arizona so we headed out to Saulsalito for a day at the children's museum.

This is actually the face of total excitement to be included with the big kids!

Kissing frogs. Splashing in the water was probably her favorite part of the day, that and hanging out with some of her favorite visitors.

Reward

2011-04-11T21:26:00.000-07:00

The Nine Month Milestone

2011-04-05T21:30:00.000-07:00

Ava "decorated" her sister to celebrate.

Little Mover

2011-03-30T10:18:00.000-07:00

Hazel is on the brink of a full crawl. She wriggles this way and that, spins around, rolls here and there, and stretches and pulls to reach what she wants. We're trying to prep Ava for the inevitable invasion of Hazel into all of her stuff and she is being very sweet choosing to give some of her toys to Hazel. Certainly life will get more complicated as Hazel's more mobile but much more fun too.

At nearly 9 months Hazel has 4 chompers with a pretty little gap in her 2 front teeth. She is an expert in waving, clapping and now drumming. She loves bananas, peas, Cheerios, lentils, basically anything she can pick up on her own. Not too into the mushy stuff but a happy thriving eater indeed.

Santa Cruz Weekend

2011-03-21T21:10:00.000-07:00

The other weekend we needed an escape from Berkeley so we headed down to Santa Cruz for a beach weekend. Got to love California winters!

We caught up with Ava's friend Amelie and the two girls had a blast jumping around the sand in their suits.

The babies loved the sand in their toes.

Have you ever seen ice cream cones eaten with such intensity? They are so in to the moment. Kid bliss.

The view from our hotel. Ava is officially half fish and Hazel is already a fan of the pool.

Did I mention I'm a big fan of this little one. Ah, isn't she adorable!

She's all love and smiles too.

Dinner of greasy food on the boardwalk with lots of excitement.

Some Cheerios too.

Ava was mesmerized by all the rides. Just a few more inches to grow little one, the fun has just begun, take your time.

Wry Neck

2011-03-21T10:18:00.000-07:00

Since Hazel was about 3 months old Mama has been taking her to physical therapy at Children's Hospital for a little kink in her neck called torticollis, much more common than you would ever think (take a look at Obama, he has a mild tort tilt). Most people wouldn't have noticed it but Hazel had a slight twist in her neck that made her look a bit like a comma with a lean to her right side. It's nothing serious, most likely a result of the quick birth and the cord wrapped so tightly around her neck. However, it wouldn't correct on it's own so physical therapy was started early. We were given exercise to do with her every day to stretch her muscles and increase her neck rotation. Slowly she has straightened out and the curiosity of a baby trying to get a glimpse of everything around her has been the biggest instigator of the correction. Sandy was wonderful with her, monitoring her progress and giving me guidance. It was difficult going to the hospital and seeing so many children in the PT wing who had real challenges to work though - these folks do amazing work and make the therapy as much fun as possible for the kids. On our last visit Sandy said Hazel looked great and we're all done with the therapy!! She may regress with sickness, teething or developmental spurts for the next few years but it was great to hear that was the last of it.

I have also been taking her to an osteopath in San Francisco on the recommendation of a friend who's son had a milder case of tort. Lee's treatment varied greatly from Sandy's but gave me a wider understanding of Hazel's physical development, her ability to heal herself given gentle cues and the importance of letting babies learn motor skills without intervention. Many babies are actually skipping over developmental skills that teach them valuable thought processes - they didn't used to do that. She did a lot of gentle massage and alignment of Hazel's hips, neck, shoulder and even the roof of her mouth! It has been fascinating to watch Hazel's realignment and a lot of work to keep up with it. She has been a really good sport and a happy patient. I just snapped a few pictures to show her when she's 16 giving me attitude and remind her what Mommy did for her....

Friday Afternoons

2011-03-11T18:04:00.000-08:00

Friday afternoons are a little... shall we say tedious? It's all three girls home for the day and Mama is eagerly waiting for Daddy to get home from work for a break. And we're all excited for the weekend. So in those last few hours we get silly. Ava turns the music on, sets up a stage, puts on a ballet outfit and off we go to the giggles.

The Mundane

2011-03-07T09:53:00.000-08:00

No little girl, it's not all fun at the park and lovely days at home in our PJ's baking cookies. No illusions that we don't have to haul the kids out for errands. Actually Ava usually loves it and Hazel is happy to be along for the ride and growl at strangers. I like photos of these mundane moments and I need to remind myself to shoot more because they fill the gaps and complete the picture of what our daily lives are really about. There is routine, a schedule to stick to, chores to be done and packing up and heading out and many sweet moments in between.

Miss Muck Face

2011-02-25T21:22:00.000-08:00

I just wish you could hear her narrating her meal....

End of the Day

2011-02-25T21:02:00.000-08:00

There are 3 days a week when we all go our separate ways: work, work, preschool and nanny... And when we come together again around 5:00, it's an exhausting relief. I let Ava feed Hazel any bottled breast milk if it's left over, a fun responsibility for someone who loves taking care of her little sister. Clearly, Hazel doesn't need help anymore. There is a mad dash for dinner, play time, bath time, PJ's, stories, perhaps a few sleepy tears and then off to bed. Another mad dash to clean the dishes, put away toys, prep for the next day, take care of the bills etc. and squeeze in a little quiet time. The weeks go by fast these days for sure.

Calling in Sick

2011-02-25T20:51:00.000-08:00

Croup, fevers, coughs, pink eye and teething.... be gone!! The girls are getting better but it was a week of grumbling and soothing around here. I stayed home with Ava since her cooties couldn't go to school. It a rare and wonderful treat to spend just a day with the two of us. We went out for hot chocolate with fresh whipped cream, bought her some cute new sneakers that make her run really fast and snuggled up for her first movie in the theater. A brilliant way to play hooky on a gloomy winter day, right Pumpkin. I see some of these days in our future teen years.

My Valentines

2011-02-14T10:04:00.000-08:00

This picture makes me chuckle a little. It's not the greatest picture but it captures what a beautiful flurry our lives are right now. Ava can't be bothered and wants to hop off to the next thing. Hazel is an observant little goof who's along for the ride. Mama is messy and tired holding it all together with a hug. And Daddy's there too trying his best to direct the chaos. Happy Valentine's Day my lovelies.

Trouble

2011-02-07T14:53:00.001-08:00

Hanging with Daddy

2011-02-02T13:33:00.000-08:00

Who Loves Mango?

2011-02-01T20:35:00.002-08:00

Winter Sunshine

2011-02-01T14:29:00.000-08:00

This is why California is so wonderful in February. It's 65 today and I dare say there is a chill in the air but I'm wearing flip flops and we're gardening after the girls wake up from nap today.

Miss Hazy Daisy

2011-01-29T21:23:00.000-08:00

I know, isn't she gorgeous. Our little Hazel grows more charming every day and I can't imaging our family without her anymore. She's nearly 7 months old and we learn more about her personality all the time. It's hard not to compare your kids but they are truly unique and Hazel reminds me every day I share with her that she is her own evolving tiny person.

She reminds us not to take for granted how mellow she by growling at us, usually at the dinner table. It seems to be her way of announcing her presence as a full fledged member of the family. One of her nicknames is Growl Bear after a book we have about a bear who doesn't know how to do anything but growl. She also likes to chatter and sing to us quite a bit. 5am isn't usually the most adorable time but we know her sweet little voice is warming up for words. In all honesty I enjoy the quietness of her baby coos. I love Ava's curiosity and quest for information. These days it seems that every statement out of my mouth is always followed by a "why Mommy?" The quiet observed learning of a little babe is a nice change of pace.

Hazel has 2 little chompers she received around Christmas time. I suspect that she's working on the next set soon. She has clammy little baby hands that really delight in pulling hair, particularly Ava's. And her big sister is eagerly awaiting the moment she grows out of that but will happily take the risk of having a chunk of hair pulled out for the sake of a hug.

Besides her animated little face we have all decided on our favorite bits of Hazel. Ava loves the squishy spot on the back of her neck, Daddy her forearms and Mama those chunky little thighs. Who doesn't just love to squeeze a baby.

Best of all Hazy just loves to hang out and explore this family that she has chosen and we're so thankful she is here.

Curious Family Goes to the City

2011-01-19T20:36:00.000-08:00

Over the weekend we took a day trip adventure into the city, via the exciting BART train, to see the Curious George Saves the Day exhibition at the Contemporary Jewish Museum in SF. If you don't know the authors' amazing story check it out. Ava had a great time discovering new characters and stories looking at all the illustrations. We left with a bunch of new books I had never heard about. We have to work on her "no touching" skills but other than that she had a great time exploring the show. I had a few visions of her putting a sneaker through a painting....

Kids got an activity suitcase to keep them busy and engaged, a brilliant idea. Really, I want to know why they don't have more art exhibitions like this geared towards children and culture seeking parents.

Hazel was a happy traveler as usual. I'm just anticipating her transition into a mobile critter squirming out of everything. For now we'll just savor her contentment.

We've been enjoying a spell of wonderful warm winter weather. Everyone savors days like this in the city.

We feel pretty lucky to live in California when we can sit outside with the kids and enjoy a special meal, drink some warm tea... in January.

Crunch

2011-01-12T11:26:00.000-08:00

I'm finally getting around to putting up our Christmas photos. Oh, and I had forgotten to post Thanksgiving in Tahoe so scroll down for that too.

We've been out of our routine the past few weeks dealing with the repairs on our new car, argh. Not easy to have it in the shop for over 2 weeks when we're a 1 car family with 2 kids. Lots of extra walks and bike rides in the rain. Did I mention it was a speeding unlicensed driver with bogus insurance, did I mention we don't have rental insurance? We were all fine and Hazel actually slept through the whole wreck. I think the poor driver may have been more frightened by a screaming Mama Bear than his totaled BMW... note to self, take a deep breath first.

Actually, it has forced us to slow down a bit, plan ahead and make due. It's good to have a reminder that we don't need to be so wrapped up in life with a car. We live in an urban environment so we're lucky but we'll walk out to a restaurant, walk to the store and just get the essentials, take the BART on an adventure, friends offer a hand and all is well in the simple radius around our house.

Christmas

2011-01-12T11:13:00.001-08:00

At last, here are some picture of the Christmas goodness that happened around here. Ava and Hazel had a wonderful time and we can see how much fun they will have in years to come. It's amazing to see how much they adore one another and how their bond seems to be growing tighter with each day. I love just seeing the two of them lock eyes in their own little moment.

It was great having Nanny Jane and Papa Dave here to celebrate. I selfishly like having my mom here to make all of my favorite food and stock up the freezer. Nanny Jane gave Ava a lesson in making Christmas sticky buns which are essential around here for a proper morning feast.

Ava did double duty this year, opening most of Hazel's presents. I'm sure there is no way Hazel will let that happen next year. You all we so generous. But the wrapping paper was oh so entertaining, always is!

Ava's love of dolls and taking care of babies is pretty limitless these days. She was over the moon tending to her little flock. We can see how her play has changed with a "real baby doll" in the house. She'll exclaim, "Daddy, Gwendolin had a big poop and it leaked every where! We need to change her now." Then once the dolly in question is cleaned up, BAM, what do you know, Ava says it happened AGAIN and we must do it all over again. But I will say that firefighters and doctors are a close contenders for her play affections too. We rush dollies who have fallen out of trees to the emergency room in ambulances and Ava flies them to Mexico quiet often (letting Hazel be the pilot).

We got out for a little hiking and play time outdoors, always essential too.

Our littlest fan of the swing.

And our newest football fan, thanks to Dave. Good times, Erik and I are already excited for next year.

Dear Carmen

2011-01-04T14:40:00.000-08:00

Mama has been back to work full time for about 6 weeks now. Hazel is lucky enough to be staying with Carmen 3 days a week. The nanny share also includes two little girlfriends for Hazel who are nearly the exact same age. Carmen was an amazing nanny for Ava and it's really special to have her back in our daily life giving Hazel the same wonderful care. It makes all the difference when you leave your child for the first time in trusted hands. Hazel just lights up when she hears Carmen's bubbly laughter and they spend loads of time outdoors soaking up the fresh air together. While going back to work life is a big adjustment we're settling into a groove again. Every day is different, every day someone needs something different, there are logistics to remember and schedules to finesse but at the end of the day we're sitting around the table together as a family and we finally feel complete.

Look Who's Eatting

2010-12-28T22:25:00.000-08:00

Hazel has ventured into real food. First bite, watermelon she snatched out of my hand. First food we actually intended to give her, banana. Let the messiness begin! Two spoons needed, one for each of us.... and and outfit change for us both too. She's getting the hang of it. Hazel looks at each bite like she's desperate for it then once she eats it there is a clear look of disgust and a little shock on her face. All in good time. Did you know there is a whole movement towards not feeding babies any pureed food?

Stella & Phoebe in the House

2010-12-22T09:38:00.000-08:00

Just before Christmas we had a lovely visit from our good friends Katherine and Brian up in Bellingham and there two adorable girls, Stella and Phoebe. If only we could live closer and get these girls together more often!! They played beautifully together and danced about in ballet clothes every chance they got.

They baked gingerbread cookies.

Road the Christmas carousel in Tilden.

While the little girls enjoyed a little mellower time at home and some walks in the rain.

It's hard to believe Katherine and I met as girls of 12 in 7th grade and now we're an unruly crew of 8!

Thanks for the visit guys, we love you all!!!

Train Ride

2010-12-14T14:20:00.000-08:00

One of our favorite weekend outings is the steam trains in Tilden. It's amazing that this beautiful little redwood forest and historic child size trains are just 15 minutes from our house. It's often shrouded in fog during the morning which makes it even more magical. Ava is always delighted to go on a ride and Hazel enjoyed her first trip too.

Sitting in the shelter of the caboose with her Daddy.

Our little girl off on an adventure, clinging to her ticket.

So much happiness to share.

Just as we were getting ready to leave a friend dropped by with this amazing red balloon to share. If you were to imagine the most perfect red balloon this would be it.

We took it with us to the train station and it was quite a captivating sight.

Snapped a few pictures of the girl bouncing around and off we went.

Ardenwood Farm Christmas

2010-12-06T10:17:00.000-08:00

Last weekend we went to Ardenwood Farm with our neighbors. They put on a very wholesome Victorian Christmas celebration at this historic farm. Hazel pulled Santa's real beard, there were no lines, Ava and Eddie ran around searching for the yule log, they made toy sheep from wool sheered on the farm, got bit by chickens, watched the blacksmith and ate cookies baked in a wood fired oven.

Eddie, the brother on the block. I think he likes to come over to play with Erik just a bit more than Ava.

Hanging out with Stephanie.

Who likes candy canes?

These two are just smitten with one another. We're looking forward to their first Christmas together, cutie pies.

Thanksgiving Snow Weekend

2010-11-29T10:39:00.001-08:00

We had a great Thanksgiving weekend up in Soda Springs, Lake Tahoe with Erik's family. A giant snow storm kept us at the cabin longer than we had planned but that's what winter in the mountains is all about. Ava had a great time playing in the nearly 2 feet of fresh powder that fell, in fact we all had a blast playing. Snowballs flying and sneak attacks. It's not that often that you get to experience such a storm. She was a little overwhelmed with struggling to move in all the powder and wrangling on so many clothes. But watching the snow plows go by was exciting fun too.

Music time with Cousin Olivia.

Passing time with a puzzle. Hazel was held up in the house most of the, too chilly for the babe.

Munchin' snowflakes with Daddy.

Roar

2010-11-09T22:56:00.000-08:00

Fall

2010-11-09T14:21:00.001-08:00

It's finally feeling like Fall here in the Bay Area. We headed out to the UC Berkeley Botanical gardens, one of our favorite places to roam around and catch some of the changing colors.

Nature's umbrella OR dinosaur food?

Catching leaves. Ava is always a little disappointed to hear that she wont be able to catch snowflakes in Berkeley.

My good little walking partner, all bundled up for the cold.

We thought this plant was fairy hair but after it left Ava all itchy we decided it was ogre hair. Fun for frolicking none the less.

I know Erik is telling me to edit but these 3 shots below were taken one after the other. Ava is such a ham sometimes, she really cracks me up.

Spokane Weekend

2010-11-07T20:40:00.000-08:00

Here are some overdue photos of our wonderful weekend in Spokane celebrating Chris and Sara's wedding. We came back with colds what with all the hugs, kisses and travel but it was worth it.

We got to spend a chilly day at the Riverfront Park with all the little cousins: Ava, Hazel Piper and Cole.

Sliding down the worlds largest Radio Flyer Wagon.

Riding the carousel with cousin Abby.

We miss the beautiful colors of a "real" fall!!

Now I'm glad we'll be getting some professional wedding photos because I was not snapping away as I should have with all the family to see and the kids to check on. Here is the lovely couple. They put on a wonderful wedding with such attention to detail. It was a very personal event for both families which it should be and I know it will be remembered well. We are thrilled to welcome Sara to the family.

Ah, my little brother.

The family: Abby, Sarah, Denny, Grandma Martha, Dave, Mom, Jerry & Ann.

Stephanie and Joe with the lovely couple.

Ava did a great job as the flower girl despite being a little shy. She was quite content to spend the rest of the evening hanging out with Piper watching her first ever Disney movies (Finding Nemo, Sleeping Beauty and The Little Mermaid in one evening). I checked on her once and was told "Mommy, the mean fairy died" and "I don't want to play with you". Then we had cake delivered to them..... not your typical evening.

Chilling with Un-kiss. Uh sorry guys, Ava and Piper got a hold of the point-n-shoot camera's and spent them like there was no tomorrow.

Ava getting her groove on with Sara.

Ah, two little girls turning into pumpkins as the night ended. A special thanks to Stephanie and Christine who held little Hazel through most of the reception.

Breakfast at a greasy-spoon the next morning. Hazel is a pro getting passed around the table to welcoming arms and happy faces.

Silly Papa Dave.

Must keep kids busy...

All the girls together, four generations. I'm so happy we have this shot!!

Christine, Debbie, Bill, Alice and Dick. Phew, that's everyone!

Halloween (part 2)

2010-11-02T21:48:00.000-07:00

This Halloween in Spokane we headed over to Uncle Chris and Aunt Sara's house. Ava and Piper ran around in a beautiful park near their house enjoying the chilly Fall weather. We would love to see this beautiful park in the Summer time. Really these two girls are going to be trouble some day. We're so happy that they are getting so close and I think playing together was the highlight of their trip.

Isn't this the most adorable mermaid you've ever seen.

Our flying fairy.

Our chilly bear, who wasn't that impressed with Halloween.

She liked Un-kiss and his warm house better.

Ava and Piper are now officially trick-or-treating experts and they were on task that evening. We let Ava pick out three pieces of candy that she wanted to eat whenever she pleased. The rest was left out for the "Switch Witch" who replaced it with a modest toy. Ava was quite happy with the trade - yeah, I know - we'll see how long we get away with that one. I love talking to other parents to see what their candy strategy is. Let me just say kids like getting something besides candy for Halloween. We've given out pretzels, playdough, erasers, granola bars and kids are always excited for the variety.

We ended the night with more sugar celebrating Nanny Jane's birthday a few days early. Happy Birthday Mom!!

Halloween (part 1)

2010-11-02T10:23:00.001-07:00

Phew, it has been a busy week! Here are some pix of Ava's Halloween party at school last week. Of course they had a pumpkin themed snack, a trip to a neighborhood pumpkin patch the week before and pumpkin art projects.

I must say I was jealous of the homemade costumes (not sure if you can see the amazing hummingbird and robot) but it wasn't in the cards for me this year with a new babe. Ava said she wanted to be a fairy which was easy enough. Next year she already wants to be a fire fighter...

Her teachers are amazing and they put on a fun show for the kids.

Lots of singing, story telling, elaborate costumes and of course signing.

The costume show... Ava and one of her best buddies Samalyia. They crack me up with their little pageant waves.

And of course trick-or-treating to all the classrooms, sans candy thank you very much! This was the highlight of the afternoon for Ava.

San Diego Road Trip

2010-10-10T08:56:00.000-07:00

We're back from our San Diego road trip adventure. The girls were amazing, doing a wonderful job on the overnight drive (thank goodness for audio books). Likewise we were pretty pleased with our new hybrid which means family road trips are officially on. Can I just say that LA with 6 empty lanes of freeway is a beautiful thing.

Ava was ecstatic all week anticipating the trip to Grandma and Grandpa's house. The tree swing was high on her list of things to do. We really have a thrill seeker on our hands.

Cousin Elijah surprised her by making the coolest fairy fort. I think if we'd had more time she would have stayed out there for days.

The oldest grandchild Paris with her new wee cousin Hazel.

Hazel will be more impressed with the Grandma and Grandpa's yard next time around.

Feeding the ducks at Lindo Lake with Grandma.

Touring a dairy farm on a hay ride. Yup, this is where your milk comes from kiddo...

Ah, Grandma!!

We took Ava (and Hazel for that matter) to her first movie. We thought it would be pretty cool if it was at the drive in near Erik's home town. We set up camp with the Gutkowski crew and saw Legend of the Guardians. About 20 minutes in the charm was already gone for the grown ups but the kids had a great time. Ava finally called it quits and curled up in her lawn chair with a blanket and a full tummy of popcorn around 10. In the morning she promptly asked if we could go again that night.

We hit the beach with the Gutkowskis. Ava can't get enough of Jasper and Annalise, and we love seeing how well these guys play together. They were on task all afternoon building a pool only to have it washed away by the tide.

Phew, that was one tired little Chickpea.

We headed to Stelzer Park for a stroll on a strangely rainy afternoon. Ava got to climb in this giant oak tree.

There is a reason we call her "Danger Jane". She'll happily climb, jump and run to tackle any obstacle with confidence. We're pretty grateful for a surefooted child with a brave little spirit. I can hardly think of anything that she has been afraid of.

Grandpa and Daddy had her climbing a good 6-7' up and then jumping off into their arms. Pure adrenalin and delight for that kid. But a mother who doesn't do well with heights can only watch so much.

Thanks again for a great visit with lots of memories Grandma and Grandpa. We'll be back!

The Hazelnut

2010-09-26T21:34:00.000-07:00

Before bath...

After bath...

What a sweet girl.

Three Year Old Teenager

2010-09-25T21:40:00.000-07:00

We're imagining that having a 3-year-old is good training for a teenager. The highs are high and the lows are low. This little one will get upset at the tiny things that are interfering with her day (not being allowed to throw folded laundry) and beam with joy at the things that are making it go right (running around naked with chalk and water in the yard). As parents we have to help unravel the mysteries that set her off, let her work them out on her own and be there to support and guide her when needed. Learning the fine balance of being nurturing yet firm is certainly an education for parents but a worth endeavor and a gift of patience.

I'm guessing we'll see this face again when Ava is 16...

... and this one too.

Hugs always make things better.

Oooh Fingers

2010-09-13T21:06:00.000-07:00

I think one of the highlights of the last week for Hazel has been finding her hands. She'll just grab a hold of them and stare so intently. She is a very strong little girl already. She has always been able to hold her head up straight since she was born, no bobble head. She hates lying on her back and has already begun to roll with some success. She is very mellow as most second babies are but her tummy is really sensitive. We'll be happy when she grows out of that. Will the mountains of laundry ever get smaller?

Nothing could be more genuine than a baby smile? She flashes some of the sweetest grins these days. The gurgling coos are beginning too.

Did I mention she's a spiter... did I mention the laundry?

Ballet Class

2010-09-13T15:01:00.000-07:00

Ava loves the dance outfits that she has gotten handed down from her big-girl friends. She often wears them around the house, even under her clothes if it's too cold outside. And she'll make me pack one with me when we go on outings where I wont let her wear a leotard (I know uptight Mommy). So we asked her if she wanted to take a ballet class. What do you think the answer was? Once we were there I'm not sure if she really understood what it was all about but what little girl doesn't love running around to music none the less. And get this, her teacher's name is Miss Angel, for real.

Beach

2010-09-07T10:48:00.000-07:00

Labor Day has passed so most of our swimming holes have closed for the season. We squeezed in as much as possible before they did. Playing at the beach is one of Ava's all time favorite activities - what kid doesn't love it. We'll be booking more swim lessons soon.

We've reached 2 months and Hazel is getting to be more animated and charming us with her smiles. Laughing is just on the horizon!

A Park Day

2010-09-05T20:35:00.000-07:00

We headed out to Golden Gate Park today - some days we just really miss SF (or maybe just the burritos). We often need to remind ourselves that we're an urban family in an amazing corner of the world. There are a lot of remarkable places and experiences right outside our door that we can share with our girls. It's a rare occasion when you have short sleeve weather out in the city so we jumped at the chance. Ava loved the muggy Conservatory of Flowers with all their carnivorous plants. The gardens outside were all in bloom and it was quite beautiful.

There is an amazing kids park out there too, supposedly the oldest in the nation. City kids really make their parks count with some cool ones. There was a middle school aged kid there earning a small fortune making balloon animals, brilliant. Ava used hers as not only a flower but a sword, pretending to be a "princess knight".

Ah, the unpredictable fun of water...

...and the exhilarating whirl of the carousel.

Tired parents, tired girls, a happy adventure.

Beach Time

2010-08-25T18:23:00.000-07:00

We've had a really gloomy summer down here with more than our usual share of fog. With the weather near 100 this week we took the day off and headed out to the ocean for a little break. Ava was in pure heaven with the waves rolling over her feet and digging in the sand. It's always more than nice to get away to some new sights.

Hazel was a little dazed by all the heat. She's been bundled up for the past 7 weeks and her little toes finally saw the light of day!

The Curl

2010-08-25T18:18:00.000-07:00

Erik keeps thinking I give Hazel this cute little faux-hawk but no, after a fresh bath she gets this adorable, large, single curl all on her own.

The Girls

2010-08-19T14:47:00.000-07:00

Here are a few recent photos of the girls.

I love how Ava's tu-tu is a little halo above Erik's head. Actually that was my tu-tu when I was little. I'm not quite sure why we have fences with our neighbors since the kids are always climbing and yelling over them. Yes, we're lucky we've got so many great families in the 'hood. You'll find us hanging out in front of our houses in the evening after work, swapping baked goods or enjoying a glass of wine at an impromptu bbq as the kids run around like we did tonight.

Ava get's into a girly mood every once in a while where she likes to dress up, dance and skip around. But we haven't hit the super girly phase yet where she only wants to wear dresses and play princess. I've heard most girls go through it - maybe she wont. But I'm savoring the time now where she's just happy to go with the flow and follow what suits her. The other day she told me she wanted to be a firefighter, a tree trimmer or a fairy when she grows up.

Then there's this goofy little girl who we're still learning about. Eat, sleep, grow and thrive with lots of grunting, growling and spitting up in between.

She's making lots of new noises and squirming all about more and more.

And then there are our absolute favorites, the smiles... Ah, who can resist baby smiles.

Oh, and baby toes. Ava nibbles these daily.

Visitors

2010-08-19T09:09:00.000-07:00

Here are some of our favorite visitors over the past few weeks. Ava just adores her honorary big cousins Jasper & Annalise. We didn't see much of her while they were around for the weekend, playing, playing, PLAYING!!

And big hugs for her cousin Piper. I think these two are going to be trouble together...

One Month

2010-08-05T22:14:00.000-07:00

Look at those cheeks! One month old already. Time is flying already....

Boxing Baby

2010-07-29T09:07:00.000-07:00

Ava has come down with pneumonia this week so any distraction is a good one.

Grandma & Grandpa

2010-07-25T20:33:00.000-07:00

Our lucky girls had a nice visit with their Grandma and Grandpa this past week. Ava was in absolute heaven having them to play with... "Come play with me!" was a constant around here. Ava is deeply into baby dolls so there were millions of spit-ups and diapers to tend to, too many for just Mommy and Daddy. Thanks for all the cooking, cleaning, pick-ups and drop-offs, kid wrangling, burping... and many other acts of kindness towards sleepy parents.

Is that Grandpa squeezing in a quick palm reading? He did leave with photo of both the girls hands.

Don't eat my popcicle! Silly Grandpa....

Ava and Grandma getting a little target practice in.

Sisters

2010-07-25T20:27:00.000-07:00

I don't think I'll ever get tired of watching these two snuggle up together.

Two Weeks Old

2010-07-18T18:23:00.000-07:00

Wee little Hazel is 2 weeks old and plumping up nicely. The sleeplessness has finally hit us and we're some tuckered out parents. But she is such a mellow baby and really doing well with sleep considering she has a noisy sister running laps around the house. She's so sweet and really we're loving getting to know her through the little smirks and dinosaur noised that only newborns make.

Poor little Ava had a fever this week which left her not being able to touch her sister without washing her hands at every turn. All she wants to do is snuggle her and every night she goes to bed saying she is going to dream about Hazel.

Aw, Daddy and his girls...

Big Sister

2010-07-11T20:24:00.000-07:00

A little morning cuddle...

I don't know if we were really prepared for what Ava's reaction to the baby would be. But it has been wonderful to see how much she adores Hazel. She is always asking to hold her and talk to her. She is happy to help fetch diapers and blankets and together we're learning about this little baby and what she needs. Hazel seems more than happy to have her sister right up close and holding her tight, never putting up a fight.

A little bedtime song...

Bye-Bye Nanny Jane

2010-07-10T08:48:00.000-07:00

Nanny Jane is gone after an extremely helpful 10 day stay before and after Hazel's arrival. What could be better for any parent than finding a healthy dinner on the table without even saying a word and what's that a plate of warm brownies to boot! Folding laundry, having tea parties, burping the baby, preschool pick-up, filling the dishwasher... everyone should be so lucky. Thanks so much for all your help with the girls Mom, we loved it!!

Welcome Little Lovely

2010-07-06T17:16:00.000-07:00

Fashionably late, Hazel June Nelson joined our family in the wee hours of July 5th. On the evening of the 4th Mommy's water broke with no warning. We put Ava to bed and went out for a walk during early labor with all the fireworks booming and the sky lit up. Our doula came over late that night and after just a few hours we raced to the hospital and our baby was born 45 minutes later - a completely different experience from Ava's birth. We're all doing well just getting settled and getting to know one another. Here are a few photos of the last 2 days and we'll keep on posting!

8 lbs. 1 oz
19.5 inches
7/5/10 1:56am
Berkeley, CA

Ava is over the moon with excitement that Baby Apple is finally here, really that's an understatement. She's so proud to officially be a big sister. She's full of hugs and tickles for Hazel.

Goodbye Due Date

2010-06-29T21:01:00.000-07:00

What to do on your due date? Head out for piles of sushi!! It seems that Apple is not ready to welcome the world and wants to take her time - much to the frustration of her Mommy and Daddy, big Sister is being much more patient. We are eagerly awaiting Apple's arrival any day now, please! Nanny Jane flew in today to help out with the exhausted Mommy and arrangement for Ava when the big day is finally here - what a relief. We'll keep you posted, thanks for all the calls and emails!

Who loves a Tropical Roll. This girl can power down some rolls and soup!

Evening Swing

2010-06-17T12:52:00.000-07:00

So this is the scene in our back yard just about every evening. Ava on the swing yelling at Daddy "higher, faster, my arms are tired!" No one pushes her the right way on the swing except Daddy. Mommy looks out the back window while making dinner and cringes at how high she is, how small she is, and how fearless she is.

Marina Outing

2010-06-08T14:50:00.001-07:00

Guess who's ready not to be pregnant anymore so she can keep pace with these cuties?

First Ice Cream Cone

2010-06-07T20:29:00.000-07:00

We've had some lovely warm weather around here. It finally feels like summer. So on a particularly warm evening I asked Ava after dinner if she wanted to go get an ice cream cone. She looked at my like I was crazy for even asking. Now this little girl has never had and ice cream cone before but she sure knows what they are. So I started her off with the good stuff (she wanted the pink flavor - mind you they actually had rosemary bacon ice cream too - that's just too fancy for me) and we watched the world go by with all the other folks who had the same idea as us. A pink sticky mess of good fun.

Fire Chief Ava

2010-06-03T22:37:00.000-07:00

This isn't the most brilliant photo but we had a tired, hungry girl after a day at preschool. Today they all walked to the fire station for a tour and Ava had been anticipating the day for quite a while. They made the fire fighters a giant card with all of their pictures, drawings and stickers and they baked them banana bread. Plus they had been wearing fire fighter dress-up clothes all week. She eagerly told us how they got to spray the hose, climb in the fire truck and see all of their gear. But she said there were no fire cats at the station and no fire fighter women. Her teacher told me that apparently one of the firemen could sense her enthusiasm and asked her "can fire fighters be women too?" to which Ava exclaimed "yes they can!". That's my girl.

A Nanny Jane Weekend

2010-06-03T22:17:00.000-07:00

We had a pre-baby visit from Nanny Jane over Memorial Day weekend. It was just us girls hanging out while Daddy went camping. Ava got to soak up Nanny Jane while Mommy got to do some papering like a fresh haircut and lunch with friends at a new restaurant. And oh did she stock up our freezer! So nice to be cooked for and taken care of in these last few weeks. Ava misses her grandparents but truly immerses herself in them while they are here and it's great to watch. She spent a few days wanting to pretend that Nanny Jane was still in the house.

And just this morning she snapped "dang-it!" Erik and I both looked at each other like... I didn't teach her that. Then Ava said, "yeah, Nanny Jane said that." Thanks Mom!

Belly Laugh

2010-05-20T20:49:00.000-07:00

Ava says,"Whose belly is bigger Mama?!"

Birthday Pottery

2010-05-20T09:19:00.000-07:00

On Ava's "real" birthday Grandma, Grandpa and I took her to a pottery painting studio, something I've always wanted to do with her. We picked out a little dish set for her to paint. The wall of fragile pottery was very tempting for this 3-year-old but she did great. She washed her pots, picked out glaze colors and brushes and got to work. 3D objects were new thing for her but she happily tried it out.

Ava was very curious to watch the tiny babies in the studio with us get their itty-bitty feet stamped with glaze and pressed onto frames. She noted which ones were crying and which ones weren't. Just you wait little one...

We'll pick up the fired pieces next week and use them for years to come. Very cool.

A special thanks to Grandma & Grandpa who were up for a week of birthday celebrations. Ava had a blast!!

Party Girl

2010-05-16T18:04:00.001-07:00

This weekend we celebrated Ava Jane's 3rd birthday. My how the time flies, seems like not that long ago we were bringing her home from the hospital. She's such a little charmer now with her own personality and network of friends. We're so glad we get a chance to dote even more on our little Ava just before her sister arrives. She has been giddy with excitement, talking about her birthday for months now and for her it will be a week long celebration.

We let the kids run wild with games and such in the backyard. Luckily for us Grandma and Grandpa made the drive up here from San Diego to help out and celebrate. Ava has been shadowing them since they arrived. It's quite special for her to have them here and I know she's soaking it all up.

There were a few tears over sharing and a lot of screaming with delight. But hey, they're 3 and doing their best. The stomp rockets were a big hit and hiding in the tent was a great game.

It's amazing how 3-year-olds snap to attention when it's time for the birthday song. Ava knew just what to do and what to expect like she had been practicing it in her head.

We made special lemon-vanilla-creamcheese cupcakes with kitty decorations. Or I should say Grandma cranked out 4 dozen cupcakes! I have to say I lost track of how many cupcakes Ava ate. But that's what birthdays are about right.

We found several "bald" cupcakes hanging around the yard. Look at her and her buddies cleaning off the tops.

What a day!

The Little Painter

2010-05-04T20:56:00.001-07:00

I don't think I've ever shared Ava's fascination with painting. It's something we do often but in short increments. She likes to either paint at her easel or at the table and always insists on using her art smock. She loves to paint with brown (Mommy tries really hard not to sway her towards "prettier" colors - I can't help it). She primarily paints horizontal and vertical lines, not too big on the circles. But her absolute favorite is painting her hands. Every painting session always comes down to her fixation and adoration of her own hands. She patiently spends more time painting her hands than she does the paper, working on the details and getting every spot just perfectly. A little here, a dab of this there.... then BAM, smack onto the paper! Squishes her hand all around and does it over again. We'll see how the technique evolves... with Mommy quietly watching and minding my own business.

Weekend Getaway

2010-05-03T10:29:00.000-07:00

This weekend Mommy and Daddy snuck away for a night at the Cavallo Point Lodge at Fort Baker in Sausalito. Ava stayed home with Auntie Lea and Cousin Olivia for a girls night which she was thoroughly excited about.

It couldn't have been a more beautiful Bay Area weekend so we were quite lucky already. We started by forgetting our camera at home which wasn't a bad thing. We're trying to "unplug" ourselves more these days anyways. The view from our balcony of the bridge, bay and historic restored military grounds was amazing. It made walking the grounds, soaking up the sights and indulging in their spa quite easy. While it's fun to escape for rejuvenation with "the good life" it's always better to be at home with our Munchkin.

We savored a multi course meal at their Michelin star restaurant, Murray Circle which is all local, seasonal and organic, not to mention simply amazing. As we sat for 2 hours enjoying our meal we tried to remember the last time in 3 years that it actually took us that long to even shop for, cook and eat a meal in that much time. I only wish I could have savored the wine too. We've certainly traded our fast paced SF city life of 10 years ago for our fast paced life as parents now. And we're anticipating and welcoming the start of the adventure next month as Apple joins us.

This is the outside of the restaurant back in the day.

And here are the colonial revival buildings. Amazing to see such a grand restoration in a national park.

A Visit From "Un-Kiss"

2010-04-27T21:17:00.000-07:00

Uncle Chris came to visit us for a long weekend of playing with his niece and helping out the expecting parents.

He got to take Ava to her gymnastics class which she loves. Ava is a really physical kid and is very rarely deterred from a physical challenge. I'm not just a beaming parent here but she has excellent balance and coordination for someone her age. And there is a reason we call her "Danger Jane". So it looks like her coach is bumping her up to the next class. This really just means that Mommy and Daddy have to watch from the sidelines, bittersweet.

Ava slowly strips down to her leotard no matter how cold the gym is. We're not at the princess phase by any means but the girl loves running around in her girly get-up and wearing pigtails to class.

Since it was such a beautiful weekend we headed out to the lake for a little splashing and digging.

Daddy caught a duckling for Ava. He's always trying to catch one at the park. You'll never take the boy who grew up with ducks out of the man. Poor little thing learned a lesson - reminded me of Make Way for Ducklings which we read often.

Then there was the squirt gun Daddy got for Ava and she quickly mastered it. Why is it grownups really don't like to be squirted at all. That's what little sisters are for.

Would you get a look at that belly! Only 8 more weeks and counting. Baby Apple is definitely another little gymnast too. Ava asked me the other morning if Apple was going to live with us forever. She's so excited to take care of her little sister and play with her.

A celebratory dinner for Uncle Chris' birthday at T-rex. Two dinosaurs here guarding their ribs and mac n' cheese. Ava loves to play dino and let out her fiercest roar.

Uncle Chris and I volunteered to take Ava's preschool on their monthly visit to the library. Here is her little class chomping on their snack after the bus ride. It's a little intense to rally so many kids in an urban setting but they love getting out and the teachers really appreciate all the help. A few weeks ago they went to visit newly hatched baby chicks at her teacher's house and in a few weeks they are going to a dance and movement studio.

Thanks Chris, we loved seeing you. Next time we need to have Auntie Sara come.

Backyard Fun

2010-04-23T10:20:00.000-07:00

It's official, warm weather is here. Which means stripping down and getting wet in the backyard. We've actually been letting Ava take a warm outdoor shower instead of a bath at night which she LOVES. We also got a little pool for her to splash around in too. Although she likes the idea of turning it into a mud bath much better. We like to encourage her love of dirt but I don't know about spa treatments yet.

This also means picnics in the backyard, you know your basic chillin' and "good times" as Ava calls them. Listening to the woodpeckers and the sounds of our neighbors and maybe even sharing some homemade popcicles.

And the best part is sharing backyard fun with our friends. You all remember our dear friend Terri who we've known since she was 7. She's such a lovely young lady who will be a senior next year and has a been working what sounds like a coveted nursing internship at Children's Hospital in Oakland. We are immensely proud of her. These guys stopped by after visiting CAL Day at UC Berkeley.

Ava is completely smitten with Terri's boyfriend Shane and wants him for her own. What is it with Ava and teenage boys? They have a blast together, a serious giggle fest. Ava calls them "her best Terri and her best Shane".

We Have a Visitor...

2010-04-09T21:54:00.000-07:00

Let me remind you that we actually live in an urban area, so walking down the sidewalk to catch my bus to SF and running into a turkey is not a usual thing. Ava and I had to do a double take when we spotted this one in our backyard the other day. So did the cat from his very high perch on the fence. Ava is a bit timid of the backyard now thinking she'll run into a turkey popping out of the bushes. I'm hoping they are nesting and we'll see little baby turkeys walking the 'hood. The kids would love that, she can be our neighborhood mascot.

Bunny Day

2010-04-04T20:56:00.000-07:00

Well Ava has had a fever for 3 days now which put a little damper on Easter. That and today's downpour that just wouldn't stop! But the Easter Bunny doesn't care about rainy days and loves to bring goodies to sick kids too. So we spent the day (the whole weekend in fact) as cozy as possible, hiding and re-hiding eggs, reading new books, watching Max & Ruby and making bunnies with moon sand.

We learned that brown eggs work much better for dying too. Thanks for the tip Chris.

A chocolate bunny for breakfast, I know, I know. But the poor girl hasn't wanted to eat a single thing for days. Might as well let her go for it.

Update... Turns out it was Hand, Foot & Mouth Disease. Thanks preschool germmies!

Cabin Relaxin'

2010-03-31T15:05:00.000-07:00

Over the weekend we rented a little house in Cazadero (Sonoma County) along the Austin Creek. Ava was over the moon at the place, saying "This is better than Mexico!" With giant redwood trees overhead, a babbling creek, fierce humming birds showing off, puzzles, card games and cozy fires she was in heaven. Sometimes the simplest experiences are truly the most rewarding. Even with Mama's cold and Ava's bout of hives we had a very relaxing time.

Daddy and Ava throwing nearly all the rocks from the creek bed into the water. A non-stop activity all weekend. Ava liked to find the biggest rocks and challenge Daddy to get them in the water with the most impressive splash.

Frog hunting... the poor critter was a good sport. Can you tell she liked it?

Don't worry, it's in Erik's hands. She didn't squish it.

Basking in the sun working on drawings. Our little starlit.

Mommy giving instruction on the proper way to enjoy breakfast in bed. I'm sure she'll be asking for this again - I know I will....

Cuddling and more cuddling.

Joy

2010-03-19T19:03:00.000-07:00

You are pure sunshine, goodness and laughter. I love you little one.